Growing as an Entrepreneur is a process. Some people compare
it to a twelve step system, where as you grow, you become better, smarter, make
less mistakes, and make more money.
I have networked with some of the best Entrepreneurs across
the U.S. I remember sitting right next
to “INFUSION SOFT” When they were first starting, and we were taking Dan Kennedy
Classes together. So as you can see, I’ve
been doing this a very long time, since 14 years of age.
I’ll review the beginning of the Entrepreneur, and when he
learns to think outside the box. They’re so funny, much a like a little kid at
a toy store. Beginners are interested in everything, meeting a lot of people,
millions of ideas, scatterbrained everywhere, which is quite amusing.
As an entrepreneur continues to grow, they start to specialize
in certain aspects of their field, or ways to create and grow a business.
Sometimes people are doing things on line, internet businesses. Others risk
their life savings, and open a Retail Establishment. Either way, the
Entrepreneur is changing.
The change is usually for the better, as they are evolving,
doing things better, safer, faster, as a result creating more income.
There is a funny stage in Entrepreneurship we all go
through.
I call it “Stage Of The Cocky Duchebag”….
Let me explain.
Since our minds open up to all of these ideas, once we start
to figure out “how it really works”, we start to study further, and really
educate our minds. We learn so much, our minds are like sponges, sucking up
every delicious piece of information we can find on our passions.
As we are learning these things, we start to develop this “We
are better than though” personality. We think we know it all. We start to look
down on people who don’t understand they don’t have to work for Duchebag McFly,
they have other options.
We start stating our opinions more. We look to be the center
of attention, and want to stand out. In our subconscious we believe we have it
all figured out. We are going to be rich. We have all the answers.
Since we are so cool, and know everything, we even blow off
some of our friends.
This happened to me once upon a time, during my evolution.
Not to this extreme. I just thought I knew it all. I thought I had all the
answers. I lectured, I talked, I stated my opinion.
I changed when I read an e-mail I had sent someone, a couple
of days after I sent it. I wasn’t rude, but I could see how I was writing, the
way I was acting. I knew I had to change, and I did, problem solved.
Then I continued to Evolve into the Entrepreneur I am today.
Sometimes, there are entrepreneurs who never grow out of that
“Cocky” Stage.
Remember, I’m from Phoenix, so I was part of the Club E
Network, and knew a lot of people. So I’m not talking about anyone in
particular, but I have met a few that never grew out of that “Cocky” stage.
It’s rediculous how these people act, and it annoys me that
someone introduced them to Robert Kiyosaki, or the book Think and Grow Rich.
They never come off their high horse. I could tell the way they would act at Entrepreneur
meetings, or Seminars I would attend. They just act stupid, and are just
shunning their fans, and joint business partners away from them.
People can see right through people who act like duchebags.
So what if you’re smart and know how to build a business. Something tells me
you’re such a duchebag, you don’t have it all figured out, because if you did,
you’d already be rich. Lots of people would like, or love you. There would be
testimonials of what you have done for people.
But this is never the case.
A lot of times, because people get stuck in “Duchebaggery
Stage”, they never evolve, and never make any money. In their own minds, they
always have “some plan”, but nothing ever comes to fruition because of the way
they act.
I think next time I run into an Entrepreneur who’s been
stuck in this stage for longer than a year, I’m going to take the book “How To
Win Friends And Influence People”, and throw it in their face. Ironic because
the book would never suggest that, ha ha.
Maybe this would be the answer.
Maybe this would help them come off their high horse, walk
on the ground like the rest of us, and shake a few hands.
The chart shows where the mistake happens. Personal & Social Emergence--Narrative Construction Of Identity, Identity As Practice, Tension Between Current And Future Identity. These are the three areas that affect the Evolution Of An Entrepreneur, and they never grow as a result.
William Whitlow
Internet Marketing & Direct Marketing Expert http://www.williamwhitlow.com
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